This month were talking about how in grief sometimes, Nothing Makes Sense. Right after a loss, we can feel like were in a fog. Were going through the motions, but we arent always present to what is happening around us. I remember after my dad died I thought I was keeping up with things, but quickly learned I wasnt. Some people dont even remember the first couple of months after the death of a loved one. Its important to be gentle with ourselves and take things one moment at a time.