<p>We can&nbsp;<strong>hold onto</strong>&nbsp;our&nbsp;<strong>changing love</strong>&nbsp;for our loved ones as we continue our bonds with them. In 1996 a psychiatrist and two Ph.D.&rsquo;s edited a book titled &ldquo;Continuing Bonds: New Understandings of Grief,&rdquo; that proposed a new grief theory they called Continuing Bonds Theory. The message of this theory is that it&rsquo;s healthy and expected to stay attached to our loved ones in some way. Obviously, these relationships change over time and it is important to seek professional help if you are stuck and not engaging with your own life. But finding your own meaningful ways to stay connected is important. And thankfully, our culture is starting to embrace this concept more fully as other cultures have done. For example, think of D&iacute;a de Muertos.</p>